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Chasing a dream that won't come true!

Today was a big day for me. I found out I got my CDA license (Certified Design Accountant). I have been working in accounting for almost 10 years and I still haven't gotten my CPA license which is my ultimate goal. I have been on again off again trying to get my CPA and my children got in the way so I took a breather.


One thing I have learned through all of this is that no matter how many years pass by, it is never too late to chase your dream and accomplish your goals. I used to think I had it all together and my 5 year plan was underway. When I met my husband, it was a whirlwind that ended in an unplanned pregnancy and a marriage at 11 months into our relationship. Some people will judge me by that and say, "they'll never make it", but we actually will. The first 3 years of my marriage were TOUGH, and that is an understatement. I was pregnant for the first 2.5 years of our marriage basically and once I stopped breast feeding my second, I felt like I became myself again. I was living in a fog while God transformed my body isn't a baby carrying/breastfeeding machine. It was so amazing and tiring at the same time. 2 kids in 2 years... WOW!

Let me just tell you that my husband is the most amazing man on the planet, but not for one second did I believe I would end up where I am today! There is way too much in the world we don't have control over, but our dreams can come true if we work hard enough. I have 2 more CPA exams to go and I hope to have the biggest celebration in a few months when I find out I have passed all 4 parts! Being a Mom doesn't mean we have to give anything up, it just means we have more of a reason to fight for our happy ending. What dreams have you given up on? I want to hear all about it in the comments!

Here's to a successful 2017!

Nicole

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